1) Condoms: never assume that your guy will come prepared, because half the time they don’t. I always carry condoms with me, even if I’m just popping out to the shop, you never know when you might need one. (Yes Richard, apart from the time we met up and you had to come in my mouth… I know).
2) Money: no, you shouldn’t be expected to pay for anything, and your sugar daddy may actually tell you to leave your purse at home, but I always have some money on me, just in case…
3) Your phone and a phone charger (or power bank). Also pays to have a good excuse ready too, so that you can take your phone out, say you’ve been messaged and do a runner if you need to.
4) Earplugs: most old men snore and there’s nothing worse than being kept awake all night by someone snoring… need I say any more. I usually have a blindfold on me too (multipurpose).
5) Change of clothes, at the very least some clean knickers. You don’t really want to be driving (or walking) home in last night’s dress. Don’t do what I do though and accidentally leave your dirty knickers behind because you don’t always get them back.
6) Lube and at least one sex toy. If you’ve been out and both had a few drinks, it can be a bit of a challenge to get things going…. if for some reason your guy isn’t ‘up for it’, then at least you can enjoy yourself and put on a good show; it’s also useful if he decides he wants anal.
7) Toothbrush and gum; if I’m travelling light, I don’t bother with toothpaste, I just pinch some of theirs. You don’t want to wake up with morning breath…
8) At least some basic makeup, at a minimum I will have foundation, mascara and blush. You don’t need to look perfect the next day, but you want to look fairly decent; you don’t want him to feel like he’s been catfished.
9) Any medication you’re taking and some painkillers; you need to be on top form. Unfortunately, the old headache excuse doesn’t wash when you’re being paid for it.
10) The understanding that there might not be a lot of ‘sleeping’ going on; be prepared to be jumped on in the middle of the night and constantly prodded in the back with his hard-on. Accept the fact that he will want to make the most of his time with you, and that you can catch up on sleep when you get home; that’s what naps are for.
Emily-Rose xxx
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