The perks of being a Sugar Baby

There are so many great things about being a sugar baby, I don’t really know where to start; sometimes I have to pinch myself, just to check I’m not dreaming. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not always easy and enjoyable, because no job is, but having done other things, I can safely say that given the choice between being stuck in an office for 8 hours a day, or sat in the sun drinking cocktails with a random guy, I know which one I’d rather be doing…  

Having always been a bit tight for cash and not having had the luxury of disposable income to spend on the finer things in life, I really appreciate everything that I get to experience with my sugar daddies. I’ve stayed in beautiful hotels in stunning locations, and enjoyed delicious meals in expensive restaurants, I’ve tried lobster for the first time (totally over-rated), and have developed a taste for oysters and champagne; I’m like a real grown up now. Don’t get me wrong, I’m still partial to a pot noodle at home, but I’m a real foodie when I’m out. 

Lots of my sugar daddies like to treat me to nice things and buy me gifts; from clothes, underwear and jewellery, to more practical things for the house. Christmas and birthdays are great, it’s like being a child again, I love it; one of my sugar daddies even organised an Easter Egg hunt for me one year….  how cute is that!  

Quite a few of my sugar daddies have my address, so will buy things online to be delivered to my house, which is always exciting, who doesn’t like getting parcels in the post, certainly beats bills. I usually know if someone has bought me something, however that’s not always the case, because sometimes they like to surprise me. My neighbour also got a surprise the other day when one of my sugar daddies bought me a gift, and accidentally sent it to the wrong address. I was very surprised to receive two parcels, one from my neighbour and a second from my postie; even more when I opened them to find two identical sex toys; that was a close one… 

When visiting sugar daddies, I often get sent home with random things; sometimes evidence that needs taking away, a half-finished bottle of wine, an extra dessert etc, or courgettes from the allotment that need eating up, or a jar of homemade jam. One of my sugar daddies used to send me home with a bag full of random little things he’d picked up throughout the week, along with an envelope of something I really liked (£££). It was actually really sweet, and I always looked forward to seeing what delights would be in my little party bag. It reminded me of visiting my Nan, she could never send anyone home empty handed, I think it must be an old person thing. 

One of my favourite gifts is a little baby pink cue chalk; which sounds silly I know… The actual gift was a beautiful pool cue, but when we headed down to my local to christen it (Cubert in case you’re wondering), he handed me the chalk which he’d spotted on the pool table of his local pub. He thought of me and knew I’d love it, so much so that he nicked it for me. This is a guy in his 60s who’s never so much as parked on a double yellow line, resorting to an act of petty crime to make me happy… and they say romance is dead… 

Gifts are all very nice, but experiences mean much more to me then material possessions, and I’ve been lucky enough to have had some pretty amazing experiences with my sugar daddies. Loving live music and live performances, being taken to the theatre is by far the biggest perk. I’ve been to my first ever music festival (all be it a small one in Cornwall), and seen everything from classical piano recitals to stand-up comedy; as well as a variety of plays and musicals. My calendar is full of things to look forward to, not just theatre trips, but live rugby (another guilty pleasure of mine) and cultural city breaks. Whenever I feel down or things feel tough (as they do for us all from time to time), I just look at my calendar and the next thing I have to look forward to, and think about how lucky I am to be able to experience these things. 

It’s not just the money, gifts and experiences though, as between them my sugar daddies have a wealth of knowledge, expertise and life experiences. I have a great relationship with a number of my men, and can talk to them about just about anything. As the saying goes, it’s not always what you know, it’s who you know, and I’m lucky enough to know some interesting and potentially useful people. If I have an issue, I will often go to one of my sugar daddies for advice or support. With age comes experience, and many of the men I see have overcome great challenges and adversity to get to where they are now; not all of them have had it easy.  

It’s not just me who benefits from the generosity of my sugar daddies, as my daughter, without being overly aware of it, benefits greatly too. With the money I earn from my sugar daddies I can afford to do things with my daughter that I wouldn’t be able to do otherwise. Little things like being able to buy her new clothes without worrying about the cost, going out for something to eat or ordering take-away without feeling guilty. I’ve also taken her to the theatre several times now, which she absolutely loves (just like her Mum). Having money makes such a difference as a parent, and I can now give my daughter things (and experiences) that I could not give her before. Whilst I keep my two lives separate, my sugar daddies know how much my daughter means to me, and would help us/her out if needed. Obviously, there’s a pay off, and I do sacrifice spending time with her to be with my sugar daddies, but that’s something all working parents have to do (balance work and family); and one of the many guilts that you experience as a parent. Don’t get me wrong, my daughter and I are equally happy sat on the beach with a picnic, or exploring the woods and creating our own adventures, there’s more to life than money, but it definitely helps, and means that we can enjoy life to the fullest.   

Obviously, it’s not all sunshine and roses, but overall being a sugar baby is pretty awesome! I’m so grateful for everything that my sugar daddies have done for me, and totally appreciate how lucky I am; thanks guys!

Emily-Rose xxx