I love Viagra, I think it’s great, and I know that lots of my sugar daddies use it, which I take no offence to; why should I? If I was paying for sex, I’d want it to be the best experience possible. Afterall, if you’re planning on getting down and dirty with an attractive woman half your age, the last thing you want is to risk poor performance or getting over excited and shooting your load before getting your money’s worth; always best to play it safe and pop a pill.
Although I do recall an unfortunate incident during a first meeting with one sugar daddy in his 70s, when at the end of the meal he pulled out his wallet to pay the bill, and a packet of Viagra flew across the table. Both the young waitress and I politely averted our eyes, pretending not to have noticed as he quickly fumbled to hide them. I don’t know what the poor waitress thought when we got up and left together. I think she felt sorry for me; he was old enough to be my granddad. Anyway, we successfully consummated our arrangement later that evening, so it obviously did the trick.
A few months later, I introduced Viagra to another sugar daddy (also in his 70s) who was having issues getting it up. We’d spent a few nights together, but not managed penetrative intercourse, due to a significant lack of an erection, or to be honest, much there to get erect. He didn’t mind as he wasn’t expecting it to happen; it obviously hadn’t happened for a long time, so it wasn’t a big deal (pun intended). I felt sorry for him though, so decided to broach the subject head on and ask whether he’d tried Viagra, and was surprised to find that he hadn’t; in fact, he didn’t even know how he’d get it. I told him to leave it with me, and with only a minimal amount of identity theft and a few white lies, I managed to buy some online; which is obviously slightly risky, as I’m not a medical professional, and there are side effects to taking Viagra when you shouldn’t. Not wanting to accidentally kill him, I did ask him to check the very long list of health conditions and medication that do not mix well with Viagra. He said that there wasn’t any issue and that he was up for it (or at least hoping to be) so the next time we met, I handed them over and he enthusiastically swallowed one; before informing me that he’d not taken his blood pressure medication the night before, just in case there was a bad reaction (you need to be careful about taking Viagra if you have high blood pressure). The Viagra did the trick and we managed to have sex; all be it very rushed on the living room floor (I think he was worried that it was going to wear off). He asked me afterwards whether he should take another one, you know, because why wouldn’t you take one before and after sex?! I told him that under no circumstances should he take more than one a day, and I checked in with him several times during the evening, in case he was experiencing any negative side effects (I was actually quite worried). He did complain of some dizziness, but said that he experienced that anyway with his other medication, so didn’t seem too concerned. He’d already decided that he wasn’t going to take his blood pressure tablets that night either, just to be on the safe side, which didn’t seem like a great idea, but oh well. I didn’t stay over, so just hoped and prayed that he’d survive the night; which thankfully he did. Maybe I was irresponsible to leave him, however in my defence, he’s a fully grown man, and knows his body better than I do. If he thinks it’s ok to skip his medication, then who am I to argue. He’d done a lot of drugs in his youth (old school hippy), so clearly not adverse to taking risks and putting random shit in his body; if he survived a shitload of LSD and fuck knows what in the 60s and 70s, then I thought he’d probably cope with a single Viagra. It was totally worth it to give him his first erection in years, he was like a dog with a bone; or a man with a boner (all be it a very small one). He’s since been to his doctor, who was fine with prescribing him Viagra, and at a stronger dose then I gave him. He now uses it all the time, and is delighted to have his sex life back; and I’m happy to have helped him do so.
I don’t know why men feel embarrassed about taking Viagra but they really shouldn’t, it can enhance your sex life, and increase pleasure for both parties. The alternative to taking Viagra is being presented with a floppy cock that is almost impossible to do anything with. I’ve been in that situation a few times and it’s not a great experience for either involved. There’s nothing more disappointing than reaching down between your legs to guide him in, only to be presented with a floppy member. Having some old guy on top of you, dry humping you, desperately trying to get hard, but failing. In most situations a quick blowjob usually puts things back on track, but that doesn’t always work…
I’ve been with guys who have had issues but have not wanted to explore Viagra, either due to their male pride and ego, or because they don’t like taking drugs; there’s still something quite shameful or ‘emasculating’ about needing help in this department. I think that the people marketing Viagra are missing a trick though, as it’s often (in my experience) not just older men who struggle, but men who are very well endowered that have issues getting and maintaining an erection; if they can just run a campaign correlating the use of Viagra with having a big cock, then men would be rushing out to buy it, and wouldn’t feel quite so embarrassed about it all. There must be some research to support my big cock theory… not that lacking evidence ever stopped anyone. I can see it now though… ‘Viagra, for when your big guy needs a little help’, or ‘Viagra, the little pill that makes a big difference’; I’d happily front the campaign
Ever since purchasing Viagra online, I’ve been targeted with adds for erectile dysfunction, so I know exactly how sad and depressing the current adverts are. I can’t watch anything on 4OD without being reminded that my non-existent penis isn’t working properly. Not really what you want when you’re watching TV with your teenage daughter, and definitely not what I’d want if I was actually suffering from erectile disfunction; talk about rubbing it in.
Joking aside, Viagra is a useful tool, but obviously doesn’t work for everyone. I met a guy once who was nervous about meeting me, so took a Viagra beforehand, just in case. He managed to get hard, no problem, but no matter how much he wanted to come, he just couldn’t; in the end he gave up as it was getting uncomfortable and starting to hurt. I know another sugar daddy who tried Viagra, but the only thing it gave him was a headache. Maybe these guys were taking the wrong dose, or it was reacting with something else they were taking, who knows.
Viagra isn’t a miracle worker though, and men still need to be turned on in order to get erect; so regardless of whether they’ve popped a pill or not, if they’re standing in front of me with a hard on, I’m taking the credit for that bad boy.
Obviously if you are thinking about using Viagra for the first time and you have any sort of health condition, or take any other medication, it’s always advisable to talk to a professional first; and when I say professional, I mean a medical one, not the other type like me…
Emily-Rose xxx
Sugar and Spice 
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